I’ve reached the pivotal mid 30’s and the thing that has been most prominent in my mind is having style and dressing my age. Outside of working for a Men’s Suit and fashion company last year, I haven’t bought any clothes for me in a long time. I’ve had some pretty fly moments, but overall I need an entire grown man makeover. I got some ideas on where to start and although mental, I think I have my desired look in place.
Jeans: I had gotten so big at one point in time that I needed a size 40 in jeans. Today, Those things are hanging off me and I’m literally in the process of trying to shrink a couple pairs now for an event tonight. My guess is that I’m at a 36 and possibly even a 34 or slightly in between. That’s great under the act of body goals, but also a dilemma when it comes to my clothes looking baggy. My belt doesn’t fit anymore either.
Shirts: By design I’m a large tall. Some extra larges fit well, but in my closet lies a lot of 2 and 3XL shirts hoodies and jackets. I’ve been selling them on eBay and have given a lot of stuff to Goodwill, but I had to keep quite a few so I had something to wear. It’s crazy how they all fit so nicely just 4-5 years ago or so I thought.
I’m looking back and realizing that as a hip-hop head that maybe I was just wearing some of my clothes a little too big for too long and now that I’ve lost around 25 pounds and counting, plus a good amount of body mass that they look even bigger on me. It’s time I step it up. I’m a real adult now. It’s time I start dressing like it. I have a list of things I want to do top to bottom.
- I like the cut of the XL hoodie on me. I have 2. Needless to say those will get worn out here quickly
- I like the tapered look of jeans and need more of those. Some of my boots are too fly to be covered.
- I think I’m going to try a couple of the extra long tees in maybe a large to see how they fit on me.
- I love Chuck Taylor II’s so there’s no budging there.
- Big fan of boots and jackets and I love a lot of the new styles out now.
- I think I’m going to wear more red. I’ve never been a big fan before.
- I want loud shoes and boots for some of my all black attire days
- Definitely need about 5 more suits minimum.
- I have one slim fit dress shirt that fits great. I need quite a few more
Lastly, I’m going to try dying my hair. I watched Girls Trip this weekend and seen Larenz Tate had the Dark Brown dye shape up going and I thought it looked super cold! I’m going to try that. I want to try it on my chin piece too, but I heard that’s not really the way to go. That’s just the start. I have plenty ideas for prints, colors and cuts, but the above is my base. I’m kind of tall and I stick out in a lot of crowds. If I’m going to stick out I got to look good and feel good. I’m not wrapped up in labels or brands, but I know this “grown man makeover” will take a nice piece of change. I plan to make steps toward it soon. If you know any TV host or reality shows that are trying to give men makeovers, be sure to drop my name, ha!